I get tired of arguing with you, its silly. every time we get on the phone together it’s like you dont want to believe the simple truth… that you want things to be dramatic and cantankerous and filled with strife. I find it to be tiresome, especially when I’m supposed to be enjoying a vacation
” I wish you would just tell me the truth”
“I wish you would quit fucking these other chicks”
“I wish you would tell me what you really mean”
all this, and we’re not even together.
I wonder if black women, because of the amount of shit that we as black men put them through, are incapable in general of simply believing truth from us. Its a rather sad thing that continually I have dealt with with black women for about 80% of my dating career. not only because I’m a photographer, but just because I’m a black man who has lately been limiting myself to dating black women.
However, when I did date women of other races, I totally had more peace **shrug** just because something is easy does not mean that it is worth it… right?
Getting to know women, and dating them, and wanting more from them is increasingly difficult as a black man wanting a black woman as a life partner.